This trend towards finding our identity is hurting people, cutting them up from within. Ripping them apart from loved ones and destroying connection.
N0-one ever gets to be who they want to be. That’s just a dream that stops us living today.
There is no other version of you out there waiting to be discovered. You exist only here and now.
You don’t have a single identity. You are a vast range of identities. One for every connection in our life.
You create your world and the people around you in our own image.
You exist in your world and you see that reflected back to you.
No-one ever gets to become who they want to be
Never did
Never will
But you can see who you are
You don’t have to look far
No struggle
No fight
Just stop
breathe
look and
listen
open yours eyes
see the world
that is you
Your world
everyone
reflected back at you
in eyes and through hearts
your reflection of you
Fighting and torment
sadness or fear
anger and overwhelm
chaos and confusion
you reflected back at you
Happiness
vitality
joy and calm
peace and content
you
And if for a while you see only darkness
be patient
still
look a little harder
the soft glow of the faintest ember
hope and connection
there inside of you
reflected back to you
Love
connection
people flawed as are you flawed
weak because of you
strong too
When searching for your identity
don’t thrash and flail your way through the world
don’t jab into the dark or plunge into depths
don’t fight and rip yourself a part
you wont find yourself there
Stop
breathe
look and
listen
open yours eyes
see the world
you created that world
the people
you have created all of them
that is you
Your world, created in your own image
You have found you
You were never lost